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real advice

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No one cares about ranks/tiers so don’t let that consume you. And don’t “trust the process” either - I’m so sick of hearing that phrase. The “process” is impossible to make sense of and only “works” for the girls who get their top choices every round including bid day. Reality is you may or may not get the sorority you “vibe” with or want the most. In fact, most girls who go through rush don’t get their top choices. There are always plenty of girls who are crying and disappointed on bid day. There are also many who don’t even make it to bid day because they don’t get invited back for whatever reason. It’s a confusing computer-managed system that is waaay different from how recruitment was done in my mom and grandmother’s day. It’s supposed to be more “fair” this way. Regardless, unpredictable twists and turns are the norm. So best approach is to go in with a completely open mind if possible, expect to have fun but to also be stressed and possibly disappointed. And no matter what house you land in on bid day, make it your own no matter what you thought of it when going through all the parties. At the end of the day, ALL the sororities are exactly the same & have the same mix of girls, period. It’s worth it to be greek no matter what letters you wear. Good luck