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Poster Name:
Curious

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />sorority benefits<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I have seen several posts from people saying they are not happy with the sorority the received a bid from. I got my second choice. Everyone says to give it a chance and over time, I might grow to love it. Now I'm wondering if I should have just suicided and then not received a bid at all so that I wouldn't have to make a choice (between dropping or staying in). My question is, what do you love about being in a sorority? Is it really worth the time and money sticking it out trying to see if I will grow to love it if it feels awkward right now? If it takes so much time to grow to love it, maybe it would be better to join something that doesn't take so much time to love. Thanks for any advice!!!