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I wasn't trying to be harsh...just be careful. I also agree with the advice above. Trust me, you were not the only person who had their heart set elsewhere. This happens at EVERY single level. Truly. APhi is pretty solid middle and they have not been here long. They will continue to improve and you can be a part of that. Also, and I mean this in the nicest possible way-they saw something in you that the others did not. That is just a fact. Your best bet is to take a minute to grieve and then move on. Oh that ache will be there for a while, but as you make new sisters it will fade. We have all wanted something badly and didn't get it. We move on. Give it your best shot. Not a droopy half hearted attempt, but a real go after it just as if you got your first choice. It will UNDOUBTEDLY be a failure if you make no effort. You have to get over your preconceived notions. As if 250 girls are all boy crazy and don't care about grades and party relentlessly. It just is not like that. Then, if you have stuck it out for about 6 weeks and you still aren't feeling it...drop! Just try first.