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Poster Name:
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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />Feel rejected by campus<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I feel like people see my letters before they see me. It doesn’t help that the second sentence out of someone’s mouth is asking what sorority you’re in. It’s like a hurdle I have to overcome to prove that I’m not weird. No one is outright mean to girls in less popular sororities that is true. But it’s more like snide comments or being left out or guys not talking to you at a party once they ask what sorority you’re in. It also sucks being invited to less because I feel like I have less of an opportunity to make friends with guys in frats so then when I do go to parties with my friends in other sororities I don’t have relationships with them already. This is why people think girls in low tier houses are awkward bc we didn’t have date nights and mixers to get to know people. Yea we can still meet people in clubs and class and dorms and people do but it’s just an extra barrier. I feel like I’m paying money to join a club that makes life harder for me. I have friends in my sorority and the stereotypes aren’t true but I could have made friends easier without the sorority. Part of Greek life is wanting to be social. Frats and other sororities don’t want to have events with us because they’re scared then they’ll be seen on the same level. Look at all the posts on here about which sororities had their formals with each other. If you get a bid to a low house drop. It won’t give you what you want if you care about a social life. People won’t be outright rude to you but you won’t feel included. It’s not a good way to start freshman year and I regret not dropping before initiation