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It's very sad, but PNMs are not lead on or promised a bid. They are recruited, flattered, listened to, told they're beautiful, perfect, etc. But in the end, they have to know that all the PNMs are being told similar things. Who would go through recruitment if they were being told "you're okay looking but not great," "I've seen girls today with much better grades," "everybody has been on a mission trip, please don't tell me about it," etc. No one would, so they don't do that. They act interested and tell girls what they want to hear. But they DON'T promise bids or tell them that they'll be invited back the next day. There are rules against that. Your daughter heard what she wanted to hear, and probably the girls she talked to were sincere. But when voting starts, that girl is not in charge of where she ends up on the list. Nor is she in charge of how far down the list they go to get full parties. It's all a crapshoot and I'm sorry your daughter is disappointed.