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Most houses require a rec on a pnm to offer her a bid. If they LOVE someone enough but they don't have a rec, they could get one on her at the last minute but that is a huge pain so it doesn't happen often. Most pnm's here have all their recs, so if it comes down to a sorority choosing between equally great girls, it's easy enough to just cut the one who didn't get a rec. A rif is just another name for the online form that alumnae use to send in a rec for you. Legacy will get you invited to the second round at most houses but that's all. Legacies get cut all the time from every house because they aren't the best fit for a house.