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Poster Name:
Truth

Poster Message:
You are bound to this house for 1 year, whether you initiate or not. That means if you drop before initiation, your next chance is Fall 2018 formal rush. The actives in your chapter saw something in you that made you perfect for their sisterhood. Embrace that. You may have to put forth extra effort to make friends in your pledge class but don't quit before you've exhausted every effort- attend every sorority event you can (mandatory and optional), make lunch & coffee dates with your pledge sisters (start with the ones in your dorm since you'll be seeing them constantly), wear your letters with pride and sit with sisters in class. Study together. Just ask what girls' weekend plans are.....keep putting yourself out there and I bet you'll make some good connections before initiation. Life in the sorority is different than rush. Once school starts, the actives aren't fawning all over the new members and new members realize they are part of a larger chapter vs being the center of attention. Lots of new members in every chapter feel unsure of their bid. It's normal and tends to work itself out.