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truth

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Most people go into recruitment with a wrong idea of sororities. They think they're going to "find" their best friends but the truth is that you have to "make" your best friends and that takes a lot of effort. If you look at what "Try" has to say it's some good ideas of how to make friends in your house. Right now you are feeling a common feeling. Rest assured that even girls who get their top choice feel this way too. It's maybe even worse to get what you wanted and find out it's a little disappointing. My hope is that you will realize that by not suiciding you were able to find a good sorority which is excited to have you in their chapter. I hope you will believe the truth that a suicide would have left you without a house. The rules are set up to encourage girls to look at all the houses not decide on one and suicide to get it. What if everyone decided on the same house?? Call Panhellenic and ask if you don't believe me. After you realize that your top favorite is not and never will be a possiblity, you need to straighten out your attitude. If you've been moping around that's one reason why you haven't made good friends. So straighten up and throw yourself in to everything. You make friends by working on projects together or hanging out together. People here are friendly and will meet you halfway. But you may (will) have to make the first move.