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Try

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No, that's not how it works - if you had suicided your top house you would not have gotten a bid at all. You were not high enough on your top house's bid list to receive a bid from them before they reached quota so that would have been it for you if they were your only choice. But you then did match with your second choice house because you were high enough on their bid list before they reached quota. They wanted you! They still want you! How can you take an active role when it doesn't feel right, you ask? Make an effort, a real true effort, instead of just limping along like poor little you. Throw yourself in! 1) Spend some time with each and every single girl in your new member class. Reach out to them, don't wait for it to just happen. You will connect with someone. 2) Go to every single thing your sorority does, volunteer to help out extra in things that will help you meet more sisters, and work side by side with them. You need some share experiences with people and not just chit chat to forge friendships. 3) Put a smile on your face even when someone isn't looking. It will help your brain to be more positive, I promise. There are girls who got dropped who would love to have your house, so be a little more grateful and TRY.