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Poster Name:
Wise

Poster Message:
When I went through my Debutante presentation classes they asked all of us to fill out forms so the local alumni associations could do REC letters for us. Knowing what I know now, I would have preferred to do the work to find women I knew well to write these for me. I don't know if other people have had this experience (and things turned out fine) but I suggest finding your REC writers yourself and asking people who know your personality and can express that in their writings.