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Your question was already answered in 90% of the responses on this thread. Give the sorority who offered you a bid a fair chance. Rush and bid day are not really completely accurate depictions of what a sorority is all about. The new member process gives you a chance to get to know the girls in your pledge class and the sisters of the sorority better and form bonds with them. You don't get a true read on a house and whether or not it's for you until you start to go through that process. It takes time for everyone to get adjusted and feel comfortable. Dropping out and rushing again won't fix things. Give the house a shot and if you are still miserable after 2-3 weeks, THEN drop and try again next year. But you need to keep in mind that most sorority girls have friends in multiple houses who talk to each other. I literally have a good friend in almost every sorority. You're not going to look good to other houses next year if you drop before giving a house a fair shake. Just saying.