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SO SO TRUE

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Well said! I also second guessed the chapter I ranked as #1 and got a bid to---I wondered "what if" on the other houses I ranked lower. Remember that recruitment and big day and the first few weeks of new member periods are totally surreal and overwhelming...for almost everyone! Yes, on bid day you will see girls crying tears of total joy, and those who are devastated. If you feel apprehensive or ambivalent---STICK WITH IT! See where the rest of recruitment takes you and keep having an open mind and be genuine in each conversation. Unless you know in your core that a certain house is NOT for you, keep learning and spending more time with them. It took me a few weeks after bid day, too....but then I fell in love with my NM class, got to know more sisters and it became so clear why that was MY house.