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SO good

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ALLLLL of this. Also, don't be a b*tch to anyone. I repeat...ANYONE. 1) You may think you are ONLY 'top house material' and not want to 'waste your time.' So, you don't engage during conversations, roll your eyes or otherwise act rude in other chapters in hopes that they'll drop you. Don't. 2) You may quickly become convinced that you've 'found your dream home. So, you put on blinders and mention to other houses early on that you see yourself elsewhere or are in love with XYZ house. Don't. (IMO, don't even do this during pref.) 3) You may feel intimidated by certain chapters. So, you don't give convos there your best because you assume they don't want 'someone like you.' Don't. Go into EVERY party open minded and kind to every single person with whom you interact. Every member and every other PNM is a human being worthy of your time, attention and respect throughout this process. Be confident and don't compare yourself to anyone! Nobody is better than anybody else. Nobody!