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thank you for the advice! tbh its difficult for me to really get the whole ‘if you were dropped you weren’t a good fit’ thing, because i always hear that chapters can really like you but sometimes you can just ‘slip thru the cracks’ you know, and i did spend some time at this specific chapter before (im not a freshman, transferred here last sem) and always had good experiences so it was saddening that one 10 min convo that may not have been as great others was the only deciding factor. but i totally understand what you mean about giving chapters time and not being 100%, i guess im being way more serious because the finances are a big factor and im really scared about getting a house that im not super passionate about because even taking a chance for 1 sem would cost me 2k i would prefer not to lose lol. but again thanks so much, it’s good to hear what cob is really like here! what’s the opinion on spring informal recruitment?