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Hold on a just a minute...Everyone invited to a pref is on that sorority's bid list. It is the last round for a sorority to have dropped any pnm's they don't see as a sister. If you are asked to pref you are wanted in that house. The other thing that needs saying is that pref is very often a game changer for some girls who were ready to drop. They see the sisterhood and find something they want to be a part of. And most importantly at pref, they see the other PNM's there who are their potential new member class. This is the make or break part of your sorority experience. These are the girls you are going to be closest with for the next few years and possibly the rest of your life. You may feel so-so about the house but if you love the other pnm's, that's worth some more consideration on your part. That's also a way to choose between your pref houses if you can't decide, you need to consider the other pnm's who are there with you for this reason. If you miss pref you are missing one final opportunity that you won't ever get back. If you only like one pref house then you are free to suicide and see if you get that bid. If you don't find a connection at all after pref then don't sign your card. DO NOT SIGN YOUR CARD AND THEN DECLINE A BID; YOUR SIGNATURE BINDS YOU FOR AN ENTIRE YEAR TO NO OTHER BID.