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Poster Name:
mutual selection

Poster Message:
Yes! Do not let anyone make you feel guilty for saying "no" to a house that you don't want to join. This is supposed to be a mutual selection process and if the houses on your schedule at pref are not houses you would have selected, DROP and don't feel guilty for it. I would rather wait a year and try to join a house where I really clicked than settle for a house where I didn't. And unless they're just bidding anyone who stuck around so they can make quota, they will appreciate that a PNM who knew they were not a fit declined the bid instead of taking the spot of someone who really genuinely loved them and wanted to be there.