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I strongly disagree with this. Most PNMs don’t have the opportunity to choose the house they liked best, and many don’t even have the opportunity to choose a house that they liked. Recruitment is a numbers game and great girls fall through the cracks all the time because they didn’t have the connections or bubbly outgoing personalities that get you on the top of the bid lists and are essential to having a “good” recruitment. Being cut by a house that didn’t get to know you in recruitment doesn’t mean that you wouldn’t fit in there or that you’re in denial about the fact that you don’t belong. No PNM should be pressured into accepting a bid from a house she doesn’t want to be in. As someone who went through it, if you’re not happy with the houses left on your schedule at pref night and truly do not want to join either one, DROP and don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for it. If you’re an introvert without prior connections and you get dropped by the houses where all of your friends go and where you felt you would fit in, I would strongly encourage you to go through again as a sophomore. You will likely have a much better experience because you will have friends who know the real you and will be pulling for you. It happened to me as a freshman, and on my second time going through I preffed two “top houses” and got a bid from my first choice.