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Poster Name:
Hotty Toddy

Poster Message:
I would definitely think long and hard before resigning your membership. As someone mentioned above, if you terminate your membership, you are no longer a member (meaning your daughters won't be legacies, you can't participate in alum associations, write recs etc)...but, since you've been initiated, you can NEVER join another sorority, either. It's kind of a lose-lose situation if you resign. If early alum status is an option, look in to that. You probably shouldn't take a little if you're not excited about it at all bc having a bad big could make her feel unwanted and it does have a negative impact on the sorority experience. However, if there are any girls in PC 15 that you've really bonded with, then you might consider it, bc having an amazing little could help you feel more at home in your sorority. Regardless, you might want to just back off for a little bit and only attend mandatory events; maybe you're just feeling a little burned out and taking a "break" could help you reflect and realize why you loved your sorority enough to initiate. Don't put pressure on yourself to go to lunch every day; that could be making you feel even more resentful. At the same time, talk to the 3 sisters you're living with; surely you feel close to them or you wouldn't have chosen to live with them in the first place. Try to bond with them as much as possible and ask them to "introduce" you to other sisters in yalls' PC that they are close to-chances are, if they like them, you will too. :)