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Poster Name:
upset

Poster Message:
Thanks for your advice. I feel like my situation is going to pan out similarly to yours in that we'll be cordial and friendly but not much more. It sort of stung yesterday when I saw the girl I wanted (she preffed me) with her new little but I'm trying to move past it. It's hard for me to make strong connections in such a short time frame and so I'm not surprised that I got a random big. We're going to try and go out to lunch this week to learn more about each other so who knows, maybe we'll become friends. I'm just going to focus on making strong relationships with my pledge class. It seems like in my chapter people don't really make a big fuss about families and hang out with their pledge class instead. I think I might try and become friends with the girl who I wanted to be my big, because I really like her, and hope we can have a big/little relationship without the title.