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Same boat

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I was in the same boat my freshman year. I didn't know any upperclassman in my sorority and ended up with a random big. She was super nice but we had nothing in common. We tried to make it work, but our schedules and personalities were so different that we rarely talked. I know lots of girls who have similar experiences. It was upsetting for a little while but I got over it. I still made great friends in my house. I talked to my big when I saw her in passing, but that's it. My advice, try to get to know her. Sit with her for lunch or dinner at your house. If both of you like to go out, meet up at the bars. Sometimes the best friendships are made while drunk. Give it a little effort. If the two of you hang out for a few weeks and find y'all have absolutely nothing in common, it's okay. Just be friendly when you see her but you can't force a great friendship. And when it comes time for you to get a little, try to meet the babies as soon as they pledge. Chances are you can find one you like and make her your little.