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@Huh

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It sounds like you had one of those near-perfect recruitments, which is great for you, but not all PNMs had the same story. If you just went through formal, you know that's a fact. There's no way you could have missed the tears, shock and disappointment as so many girl lost favorites. That's not to say they don't end up happy where they land, but those drops can be tough. It doesn't sound like you experienced just how hard it is if you kept your top three favorites all week. I agree with you that PNMs need to feel confident, but they also have to be realistic about how competitive it is. Some really aren't and come here thinking they hold all the cards. I don't think it's always because they feel special or entitled. A lot just don't realize that they'll be up against SO many girls with the same great qualities as them. They also don't understand how the system works in regards to releasing PNMs and how many the higher ranked houses are required to cut. You'll see what I mean next year when you're on the other side of recruitment. Anyway, congrats on your successful week. I know a lot of incredible girls with very impressive GPAs, resumes and recs, great personalities and very pretty looks who didn't see things go as smoothly as you did, so congrats again on your very happy outcome!