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The mom didn't mean to be a pain, at least not according to my mom who knows her pretty good. She said this mom just didn't want her girl to get hurt, but then started coming undone when the cuts got bad. Anyway, my mom is a sorority alum and does about 10 recs every year for girls from my former high school or our church or neighborhood. Most of them go here, or to UGA or Alabama. She always tells them (and told me) to stick it out as long as invites are coming, and it bothers her a lot when girls drop right before pref because she says there are other girls who get released at that time and would give anything for invites others are throwing away. She told me, and a lot of my SEC friends, that at these competitive schools, nearly everyone loses favorites, so if you really want to be Greek, you have to look at every round as a new day and try to find favorites among the sororities that do invite you back because they're all great, plus so big that you're completely close minded if you really think you can't be friends with even a few members. Well, her advice paid off for me, as I'm someone who lost her very top two favorites and didn't get a bid her first choice. Happily, I know now that I ended up in the best sorority for me and wouldn't want to be anywhere else! From the inside, I can't say the system is perfect, but it's set up to work and usually does for girls who aren't dead set on certain sororities.