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From yes! above: "It could be great to be a 'sister' to your mom/sister/grandmother, but only if it's a true fit. Don't let family pressure get to you. I've seen girls pledge their legacy house only to later regret it!" No truer words spoken. I watched my roommate struggle with her family over her legacy house. She was a 5 time ole miss legacy to a 'top house' and liked the house, BUT she liked another top house better. She was intimidated by her family to pledge like her grandmother, mother, aunts, and sister. She did eventually pledge her legacy house but struggled our freshman year. She also grew to love the house she pledged and is definitely thriving there BUT she still tells me in confidence that she often wishes she pledged the other house. Me, on the other hand, pledged my legacy house and it was and has continued to be the absolute perfect fit for me. Just be TRUE to yourself. College is hard, especially freshman year (don't believe anyone who tells you otherwise - they lie) and the social scene can be alienating even if you're incredibly popular and involved so choose a sisterhood that is right for you and ONLY you.