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never know

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Here's the thing- you just never know- rush is absolutely crazy. I was like you OOS, no connections, no mega money, good grades and think I am thin and cute...etc... I pretty much put the top 3 out of my head, fell in love with a "lower tier" on the second day and was crushed when they didn't end up on my pref schedule and beyond shocked when one of the "top 3" did. Honestly think it worked out like this because I was actually myself at that house and I was too worked up / in love with the other one that I came across as anxious and probably a little "weird" because I was so stressed. I ended up pledging the house I put down first which is considered "middle tier" because it was where I felt the most at home after pref. Good Advice above gave great advice. Go in with an open mind, be yourself and try not to get too stressed or fall in love with any house. Yeah this site has a lot of hate on it- but from where I sat going through last year I couldn't tell the difference between the top and the so called bottom- probably because I was OOS. I honestly think sometimes OOS are at an advantage because we don't feel the pressure to pledge a certain house unlike a lot of the in state girls who think their lives will be over if they don't get KD, DDD or Chi-O. Every! I mean every! house on this campus is great and if you go in with an open mind you will find your place- and it might actually shock you where that place really is.