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As an alumna, I would never send a "Do Not Recommend" if I didn't know of the girl personally and could confirm first-hand her bad behavior. There is no polite way of telling an alum about a bad girl without it seeming that you are trying to smear her, unless you know the alum VERY well and she would listen to you without question. I feel you @WorriedMom, but you are now in that place where you have to step back and let some things go. You can't live in fear. Plus, college is not high school and can be the great social equalizer. Mean girls in college will find more condemnation and repercussions than they did in high school, and the sweet girls will get more support and blossom. Support your girl to not let that bully worry her, or shake her confidence, or run her off from what she wants to do! Help her to master the things in her control - presenting herself as a polished, attractive, confident PNM with good recs and good grades and resume. Worry about what's in your power to affect.