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I get that there might be more opportunity to be a leader in a new chapter - but that's not a reason to pick them. You might not like them, they might not think you're a fit for them! Choosing a sorority based on its social media is like picking a job based on its written description. It's gotta be a mutual choice and that only happens in person. There are plenty of opportunities to be a leader even at the most established chapters. Maybe not as easy as at a new one, but if that's what you really want to do, you will find a way. As for not being a legacy, I know tons of girls who have become leaders both in their houses and on campus that weren't legacies -- and some didn't even have any connections to a sorority. If being a legacy were requisite to being a leader in a house, there would be very few leaders. Go through recruitment with an open mind and you'll hopefully find your home. Best wishes.