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I'm so sorry that you're going through that. I lost my mom recently and I think I understand what you're talking about - for me, I want to be closer with people, to be surrounded by more people. Part of that I think is to fill a void, but another part is understanding that a lot of things that I thought mattered, really don't, and what does, is friends and family and relationships. So, with that in mind, here's my advice. If you are interested in COB, let people know. And if you want to rush again as a sophomore, start working those relationships with people you know on campus now. I will be honest, the odds are really not in your favor, but if you want to try again then you should. And finally, do more. If going to church wasn't helping you find your group, then look into clubs, volunteering, things like that. What do you like to do? What did you like to do before you came to oxford? It doesn't have to be through church.