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You're wrong. It is much more mutual in the first two rounds. A lot of PNMs who have no real hope for the higher tiered groups get asked back. If they ranked those groups high, then they're going to those houses and giving up houses where they'd fit in better and would still have a chance with. You know exactly what people mean when they say PNMs don't see clearly where they belong. They put on their recruitment goggles and reject houses with lower reputations all because they're sure they deserve to be in one of the top houses ... even though they know they won't fit in deep down. It's human nature to want "the best" which is not necessarily the best for you.