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Poster Name:
Follow Your Heart!

Poster Message:
I tried to get into an Upper-Mid House my freshman year. I ended up just choosing a different Lower Tier sorority similar to TPA and not the Upper Mid house, but I am so glad I did. The house I was trying to rush because I thought I wanted to be in it turned out to be a house that I would have hated to be in! In fact, that small group of girls that were rushing me in that house were the "minority" of the personality and expectation of that house. I was so much happier that I followed my heart, trusted my gut about the personality of the whole house, and ended up where I did. I'm an alumni now and still keep in contact with all of my sorority sisters, hang out with the ones that are in the same town I'm in, and go visit others in other cities when I can. Please believe me when I say that tier matters now while you're going through this, but it won't in the future. Even with that "tier system" they talk about... I still went to tons of different parties of all tiers. I got to make lifelong memories with my sisters, and now look back on college as the best experience of my life! TPA is a great sorority, and what's even more of a perk to join them it that you get to live in a sorority house! They didn't have that when I was there. So embrace it! If you love them and they're your last house at the end of this, go with it! You will not regret it, I promise! <3