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Sadgirl - Please DO NOT listen to the comments here! If you did not feel a connection to the two houses who called you back, why should you force yourself to like it? Chapters are allowed to drop you if they don't feel you fit in or they don't feel a connection to you, shouldn't the reverse be true? If you gone forward, accepted a bid and initiated you would NEVER be able to join another sorority in the future. Who knows, maybe you will have an opportunity next year. Also, Greek Life is great and there are Social benefits BUT it is not the only way to attend IU. You can still go to frat parties, if that's what you are looking for, you will still get invited to formaldehyde and dances, you can still participate in Little 5 and IUDM. You can fund a philanthropic club and get your philanthropy that way. Quite frankly, it's sad that SO MUCH emphasis is put on Greek Life at IU. Greek Life is only going to be a VERY small snapshot in your life. Don't you agree that it is kind of awkward that somebody else picks your "best friends" for the next 3 1/2 years of college? Find your friend group the NORMAL way and make that YOUR sorority.