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Poster Name:
Honestly

Poster Message:
I can't get into the finer details of membership selection, but suffice to say that I don't think you should expect to go where your friends go. As a sophomore, you should feel incredibly lucky to get a bid anywhere. So what I think would serve you best would be to lose the attitude about "pretty good" sororities (and presumably, "not so good" sororities). EVERY sorority on this campus is great, and if you can't see that, then the reality is that you don't deserve to be Greek. And, if you don't get your attitude in check, I predict that you will probably be extremely unhappy this time next year. Don't expect your experience to be the same as that of your friends because it won't. The road you are walking is way harder, but there are rewards on it if you're willing to look past the surface and figure out what truly matters--and that means letting go of the "rankings" and the idea of certain houses being "pretty good."