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If you could understand the process by which selection happens, you may understand it better. It's very complicated. It doesn't mean that those girls were being fake. I actually had the very same thing happen to me, and when they say "you end up where you belong", they weren't lying. I took my second choice, with some hesitation. I would NEVER, NEVER change my choice now. I am so happy that I didn't get my first choice. and maybe the choice that you made to decline your bid was right for you, but I think maybe you should have at least given your second choice a chance. You always could have dropped before initiating if you really didn't like it. Just remember, everything happens for a reason. I hope you end up somewhere you love this time around!! (if there is one)