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Wow you are all being way too hard on this girl. Why are you all so mean spirited? Now for some real advice. Two of the girls in my chapter thought for sure they clicked with a top tier on pref night and were literally crying on bid day when they saw they were in my chapter... their third choice. It took them a long time to see where they fit in, but when they did they fell in love. Now they live in the house and have littles and wouldn't change a thing. I think you had a certain image in your head about greek life and trust me so did I, but it's much different than you think. This does somewhat depend on which bottom tier you're in. If it is dz or gphi, those are chapters that really require dedication, so if you aren't fitting in at all with those maybe try again next year. But if it's any of the others, let me tell you their sisterhoods are generally better than what you will find in a top tier. There are extremely cool girls there. I know girls who chose chio over kd and aephi over zeta. You have to branch out a little more, go to the sisterhood events, go to lunch with people, hell go out and drink with other new members and everyone will let their guard down. At least wait for big/little. There's like 170 girls in every chapter, there are bound to be a few just like you, I promise there is a reason you ended up in the chapter you're in. And if not, like I said, greek life is great but it's not like the movies and its not all that it seems. Find what works for you!