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Poster Name:
RhoGam

Poster Message:
Bid day can be overwhelming and is usually not the best judge of the chapter as a whole. I usually recommend to girls with this issue to give it a week. And really give it a try. Go to events, spend time at the house (if the chapter has one), and meet more sisters. You'll be surprised, even after recruitment, you have only met a small portion of each chapter. You might find girls just like you, you just have to make an effort. These girls liked you for a reason and thought you would make a good fit with them, it's just a matter of you finding that fit. Sometimes it takes longer than others. I recommend you give it a week and you reach out to your Rho Gamma about your issues. If you still don't feel at home after a week, reevaluate your situation and go from there. Just don't give up after one day.