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Please don't be offended that your daughter was dropped, trust us that in the long run this is what is best for your daughter. The sisters of a chapter know when a girl won't fit in completely or when she would be happier in another chapter. This is not a cruel or malicious process. Just because she was dropped doesn't mean she wasn't worth the chapter, that's a huge misconception!! It just means the sisters there wouldn't want to bring her into a chapter where she'd be uncomfortable simply because she's a legacy. If you want you daughter to find her home and have a great sisterhood experience then trust the system and let her find her own way. The only thing that makes recruitment seem "unfair" is expectations and assumptions, which PNM's are strongly advised against having!!!