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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />the truth about being in a low tier sorority<br /><br /> Poster Message:
People on this site say all the time that lower sororities like ADPi and KD provide the "same experience" and as someone who dropped one of these I think that in some ways that advice is true and in some ways it isn't and wanted to give pnms the truth. The same: In a low tier house you will still get to experience bid day, mixers, sorority date events, roundup, big/little, etc. With the number of girls in each chapter you are sure to find a group of friends to feel at home with. The different: You will definitely feel the stigma of being in a lower house. Upperclassmen don't care as much but your first freshman year people DO care, especially guys. Many fraternities will flat out refuse to schedule mixers with you, and if they do not many guys show up. Girls in better houses are the first to be asked to OU weekend, and are asked to more fraternity formals. You will have no chance at being a cowboys or spurs sweetheart. Guys aren't interested in buying your roundup gear, and sometimes don't even want to go to your date events. I had a sister who's date for an event cancelled on her because he got invited to chi o's date event on the same night and wanted to go to that instead. That type of thing is not uncommon. The takeaway: My opinion is lower houses provide the same SORORITY experience, meaning sisterhood, philanthropy work, and getting to wear letters. If you are more interested in the overall GREEK experience, meaning having a full social calendar, partying a lot, and getting to know fraternity guys stay faaaaaar away from adpi/kd/axid.