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This is a safe forum to air feelings or ask for advice. The truth is...if your writing this...the tier matters to you. Because if the tier did not matter to you you wouldnt be writing this??? The reality is do not rush again because this how you did. If you like your house choices- then you need to get out of your own way. To accept a bid that you dont really wants takes it away from another girl who wants it or your never going to be satisfied in your house. Tiers do exist! Dont kid yourself. Will some girls think your not for them because not in their tier? Yes. Will some frats not be interested in you because your houses dont mix - yes. So that's your reality. Is it lower mid? You'll be hanging with lower mid frats. Whatever house your in - that's who you'll be hanging with. Where you belong. If your talking top tier...aopi/axid... the top tier is really 4 - tridelt/alpha phi/theta and KD. Axid and AoPi are below in rank AXO is below them Don't join a sorority with the disappointment your already feeling.