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You're the sweetest mama for reaching out and trying to help your daughter! I know delta gamma and aopi are doing cob (i heard aopi is but im not entirely sure but i know dg is). tell her to talk to her friends in sororities because those will be the girls vouching for her and filling out recommendations to be in their respective chapter. if not that, then she can always contact pha (either on instagram @umdpha or email which is on the pha website). This is how it will go: 1. girls in the chapter need to fill out a form to advocate for her 2. the girls who have forms filled out for them will be sent an email saying the respective chapter is interested in them and will ask for her availability to go on a "coffee date" which is just talking to a member. 3. coffee date happens. this is probably the most low-stress, easy environment. dont worry about the 5 b's, you can genuinely be yourself 4. the sister who talked to her will go back to the chapter and discusses with other sisters whether or not she should get a bid. 99% of the time the answer is yes. 5. An email is sent to the girl, your daughter in this case, saying she either did or didnt receive a bid. after that depends on the chapter. let me know if you have any other questions and I hope all goes well for your daughter!