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Don’t drop

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For people with houses they don’t love left: Keep going through recruitment. Keep meeting more members. You’re making a judgement based on less than a half hour of total conversation with around 5% of chapter members. Chapters have such a mix of personalities and interests that you’re bound to find a group of friends and have a good college experience in almost any chapter. You might fall in love with your chapter when you first walk into the house during values round…. or it might take longer. Personally, I cried on bid day. I wanted to go home, drop the sorority, and never come back. But I gave it a chance. That first semester, I went to new member meetings and bonded with my PC, met girls in the chapter at socials I didn’t meet during recruitment, and built friendships I never thought I would find. I went from thinking of disaffiliating to being on my chapter’s exec board within in a year, just by giving it a chance. If it’s not for you, it’s totally okay, don’t force it. But, don’t make snap judgements. Give it time.