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It's better if a personal connection can write the rec for you. Family, family friends, teachers. Ask around to find sorority women. If you cannot find a personal connection contact the Alumnae Panhellenic in your area. If after that you can't find a rec (unlikely) then and only then contact the chapters. An alumna can only write a rec for her organization (i.e. A Deltz Zeta can only write a rec for Delta Zeta, she can't write one for Kappa Kappa Gamma). Recs help, they never hurt. And you should have a rec for each house. Don't be a snob and turn down a rec for ABC cause they're weird losers and you'd never want to be an ABC. Alumnae will not look kindly upon that. Just be polite, and accept it. You never know what will happen in recruitment. And after your writers have mailed (in which case it is polite to provide addressed/stamped envelopes) or electronically submitted their recs, send them a thank you note or email.