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I think that shy or quiet girls are at a bit of a disadvantage simply because the process is overtly extroverted and quick. However, if you just go in knowing that you need to fight the urge to be shy and commit to TALKING and smiling a lot, it can help. I suggest you do some research on good questions to ask and maybe have a bunch in the back of your mind. If you feel you are having trouble in the conversation, pull out one of your great questions and get THEM talking. Show genuine interest, answer questions by smiling and looking them in the eye. In other words, don't let "shyness" turn into being socially awkward. Shy girls can be very successful. Awkward girls, um, not so much.