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The person above got it right. I think the biggest thing that was a shock to me when I went through recruitment was how differently girls felt about different chapters. Chapters I LOVED were not liked by some girls, and some girls loved certain chapters that I couldn't see myself in at all. My biggest advice is to remember that this is not high school - no guy is going to want to date you just because you're in a top chapter, and no girl is going to think you are cooler than you are because of what chapter you're in. People "care" about their own chapters reputation - they don't give a damn what chapter you're in. I've seen top tier frat guys date bottom tier sorority girls and vice versa. It's college not high school - people judge you for you, not the clique you hang out with. There are perks of being in a top sorority but it's not at all comparable to being a popular girl in high school. Being popular in hs matters so much. It doesn't really matter here.