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I will also add: no one has a perfect recruitment. It’s rare to have a full schedule every round and the odds are good you’ll get dropped by one of your favorite chapters. don’t talk to other PNMs about your recruitment. Make friend with them, but comparison is the thief of joy and talking about who you liked or what groups you got asked back to is only going to make someone feel bad. If you need someone to talk to, go to your Pi Rho Chi or your mom. Don’t base this decision off any boy’s opinion. Four years from now it won’t matter what fraternity likes which chapter best. I knew APhis and Phi Sigs who were both dating guys in the same fraternity. Just hang out with who you want to. There will be any combination of chapters on a girl’s schedule. Girls have and will continue to pref Kappa and Pi Phi even if this site will have you believe that’s impossible. I know plenty of girls who pref “top tier” and “bottom tier” chapters every year, and sometimes the PNM ranks the “bottom tier” chapter higher. No one can tell you why you were cut from a chapter. Anyone who tries to tell you a definitive answer is likely trying to spare your feelings or has no idea what they’re talking about. Don’t take it personally if your friend’s chapter drops you. Have fun!