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Poster Name:
yes, buuuut

Poster Message:
I understand you are trying to be panhelenic here, but giving pnms the idea that they get to "choose" is false and sets pnms up to be very hurt during rush. It kills me to say this but pnms: you do not get to choose what house you get a bid from. Sometimes even your friends in the house can't even "choose" you to get in. Its different in every house but overall tends to be a small group of girls on the recruitment team picking who they want their pledge class to be before pnms have even stepped foot in the door on convo day. You don't really get to pick which houses you drop. You don't really even get to pick your house at pref, not even the girls in the house really get to pick anyone at pref! its a bizarre panhel computer sorting system. So take rush with a grain of salt, and try to see each house you have left each day (even if its not one you want) as an opportunity to be apart of something during your college experience and make some friends. You didn't get dropped because you aren't pretty enough, or skinny enough, or cool enough or because the girl you talked to gave you a bad score. It just happened.