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sisterhood isn't about doing favors for members who were in a house at a completely different time with completely different people. houses change, and daughters are not identical to their mothers: what worked for a mom might not work for her daughter. sororities factor whether or not they think a rushee will be happy in their house into their decision making. for example, a really social house, no matter how much they like a shy rushee, might not take her because they think she'll be uncomfortable. i've seen this a lot. it's never mean-spirited, and a lot of girls are really sad, but they know it's for the rushee's best interest. you ultimately end up where you belong, and it might be a different house from your mom because you're a different person. the priority is to make sure that each rushee joins the house they belong in and feel comfortable in, and that the sorority feels like they get girls they have things in common with and with whom they can bond. again, daughters aren't necessarily their mothers, and while legacy is important, it's more important that you're actually in a house you belong in, not the house you think you belong in because that's all you've been exposed to. sisterhood is not about getting favors for your daughter. it's about forming individual bonds with different women,and i wouldn't call that pointless.