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i think what the original person means is for example say members of a sorority think anyone with blonde hair looks cool, pnm or not. we see girls with blonde hair on the street and think how pretty they are and start associating positive feelings with them. subconsciously, members of our house are going to try and rush those girls. we know girls with blonde hair look cool but are blissfully unaware that we start taking only blondes. does that make sense like we say we are all values-based during recruitment and fully basing it off of personality but if we think whatever trait is cool we're going to start looking for those traits even if we aren't actively trying to. in a way, we know what we're looking for in a pnm but it's more so based on biases we hold subconsciously i guess i think that's what they mean