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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />need advice after not getting bid <br /><br /> Poster Message:
After the whole recruitment process I felt supper connected to one specific chapter and made it all the way to preferences. I really had the best conversations with these girls and saw myself fitting in there better than anywhere else. Obviously I put them down as my first choice but also included my second choice which I was not happy with at all. I ended up getting a bid for my second choice and basically had to hold back tears for all of the bid day celebrations. Girls from my first choice even reached out to me to say how sorry and upset they are and how sometimes the system just screws you. Would it have been better to leave my second choice blank during the choosing process? Is there anything I can do at this point? Is it even worth it to join my second choice when I know I wont be fully committed and will always want to go back to my first choice? Will it be weird rushing again next year?