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I'm sorry you're feeling this way and honestly, it's totally normal! Lots of girls feel that way in second semester, after the excitement of being a new member is over and all the fun things that happen in first semester like big/little reveal, initiation etc. The best thing you can do is reach out to girls in your pledge class one on one to go for coffee. If your chapter has study hours, go to them! If not, ask girls if they want to get together before chapter meetings to study. Actually show up to all the events your chapter is having, sign up to go to other chapter's philanthropy events with your sisters, and just be as involved as you can. The best way to build those relationships and feel more a part of your sorority is to just be present. Playing on a Rec team, going to the weekly volunteer activity your chapter does (I know some sororitys do the reading buddies program or something similar), etc. Also, it might be too late for this, but taking on a director position in your chapter is also a really good way to form closer friendships because you are working together - even if a small position opens up in the future, take it! It's a great way to feel more involved and part of things. And, as other people have said, the whole chapter bonds during recruitment and the summer.