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HI PNM

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the best advice i could give any PNM is keep an open mind, try to figure out which girls are like you vs. which girls you want to be like, and trust the system. although your sorority sisters should push you to be better, if you choose girls you are unlike but wish to be like you will ultimately feel unhappy and out of place (i've seen it happen!!) rather than become like them. as for trusting the system - after invitationals i had two favourite houses (one suited for me and one, as well as one i thought i wanted to be like) as well as one sorority that made me feel rather important which i ultimately ranked above the other sorority i liked but did not feel i was similar to/was intimidated by. in the end i got asked to pref by my favourite that i was suited to (which i chose in the end) and the other one i felt i was not suited to - but in retrospect would have fit almost equally as well in so it turned out the system knew me better than i knew myself. its easy to get caught up in sororities that make every PNM feel like they're guarenteed a bid or the type of girl they wanna be - but try to find a match to who you are and i promise you'll find you home! good luck yall <3