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Poster Name:
panhel

Poster Message:
It's hard not to be disappointed when your invites don't match your expectations, especially when your friends seem to be getting invited to the houses you want. Take a deep breath. Don't get caught up in anyone else's recruitment but your own. Ask yourself honestly "Did I like the girls I met at Gamma Phi and/or SDT?" Can I see myself living here? If you would consider joining, I encourage you to go the the final party. It may give you the final look you need. In the very least, you will have gained good recruitment experience, and I'm sure enjoy a nice party. We take a lot of time planning these parties. It sounds like you are a freshman. If you cannot see yourself in either house after the final party, don't accept a bid. You may be able to join a house in the spring or rush again next year. If you do that, like the previous reply said, maybe your friends who end up joining can help you in the process. Don't count on them to "get you in" wherever you want. Try to learn what could give you better results the next time around. good luck!